Motherhood is often measured in piles—laundry piles, dishes stacked high, toys scattered across the floor. It’s easy to feel buried beneath the weight of it all, lost in the repetition of endless tasks. Some days, you might wonder if this is it—if the constant cycle of caring, cleaning, and comforting is all there is.
But what if fulfillment isn’t found in doing more, fixing more, or achieving more? What if it’s in the way you relate to these moments?
The Shift: Seeing Motherhood Through a New Lens
Cory Muscara offers a powerful insight:
"Controlling your mind has more to do with how you relate to your experience than it does how you manipulate your experience. A form of control might include changing, quieting, or redirecting thoughts, but it also means the ability to be at peace with thoughts, recognizing them as another arising phenomenon that doesn't have nearly as much to do with you as you think."
And Pierre Teilhard de Chardin reminds us:
"We are spiritual beings having a human experience."
Motherhood is more than a series of tasks to complete—it’s an experience to live. The sleepless nights, the spilled milk, the never-ending laundry are not obstacles to fulfillment. They are the moments of motherhood. They are the sacred spaces where love grows, patience deepens, and connection flourishes.
The magic isn’t in perfecting the mess. It’s in seeing the beauty within it.
Motherhood Was Never Meant to Be Done Alone
Here’s what we often forget: Motherhood is too sacred to do alone.
God designed this role. He gave you these children, and He never intended for you to navigate this journey by yourself. When we try to do it all on our own, we feel overwhelmed, inadequate, and exhausted. Not because we are failing, but because we were never meant to carry it alone.
When we invite Heavenly Father into our motherhood, everything changes.
We see our children through His eyes. We feel His love. We begin to understand that every moment—even the hardest ones—are part of a divine purpose.
Starting Your Day With God: The Key to a Different Experience
So let’s change that.
Before the chaos begins, before the demands of the day pull you in a hundred directions, take a moment in the quiet of the morning to connect with the One who knows you and your child perfectly.
Pray. Reflect. Breathe.
Invite Him into your struggles, your worries, your joys.
Ask Him to guide your heart, your words, and your steps.
When you do, you will begin to see that this journey—spilled milk, sleepless nights, and all—is not just hard work. It is holy work.
You Are Not Alone: There Is So Much Joy in This Journey
You don’t have to do it all on your own. Heavenly Father is with you, always.
Take a deep breath, Mama. The sacred moments are already here—you only need to invite Him in to see them.
And if patience is something you’re struggling with in your motherhood journey, I’d love to invite you to watch my FREE ON-DEMAND MASTERCLASS: 8 Steps to Becoming a More Patient Mom.
Because you deserve to feel peace, joy, and fulfillment—right in the middle of your beautiful, messy, love-filled life.
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