Motherhood is beautiful, but let’s be honest—it can also feel overwhelming. The never-ending to-do lists, the packed schedules, the messy house, the constant demands. Some days, it feels like you’re barely keeping your head above water.
But what if the answer isn’t to do more, but to simplify?
Patricia Holland once shared this simple but powerful advice:
“Please stop running to the point of exhaustion. Be quiet; be still. Simplify.”
We live in a world that glorifies busyness. We often believe that being a good mom means signing our kids up for every activity, keeping a spotless home, making homemade meals, and teaching the gospel in Pinterest-perfect ways. But when we simplify motherhood, we free ourselves to focus on what truly matters—connection, peace, and joy.
Why Simplify Motherhood?
Simplifying isn’t about neglecting responsibilities; it’s about focusing on what’s essential. When we clear out the unnecessary, we create space for what brings lasting joy.
Simplify Your Schedule: Not every activity is essential. It’s okay to say no. It’s okay to slow down. Less running around means more time for presence and connection.
Simplify Home Chores: Instead of aiming for perfection, create simple systems. Get the kids involved. Let go of unrealistic expectations. A lived-in home is a loved-in home.
Simplify Kids’ Activities: More doesn’t always mean better. Prioritize quality time over quantity of commitments. Kids need space to breathe, play, and just be.
Simplify Gospel Teaching: The gospel was never meant to be complicated. It’s about love, faith, and small, consistent efforts. Keep it simple—daily conversations, sincere prayers, sharing doctrines in spontaneous ways, and showing love.
Simplify Discipline: Discipline is most effective when it’s clear, consistent, and calm. Focus on teaching and connection rather than control and perfection.
Mindset Matters
But here’s the truth—simplifying only works if we have the right mindset.
We can declutter our homes, cut down on activities, and streamline our routines, but if we’re still weighed down by guilt, perfectionism, or comparison, we won’t feel any lighter.
Patricia Holland reminds us:
“Faith is the conviction that there is a God, hope is trusting He will help us, and charity is His love working through us.”
Simplifying is not just about doing less; it’s about trusting more. Trusting that we are enough. Trusting that God’s grace fills the gaps. Trusting that we don’t have to chase joy—it’s already within reach when we slow down and focus on what matters most.
A Simple Invitation
This week, take a deep breath. Pause for a moment. Ask yourself:
What is one thing I can let go of?
Where can I simplify to create more peace in my home?
How can I shift my mindset to focus on what truly matters?
God has carried you from the beginning, and He will continue to carry you. You don’t have to do it all. You don’t have to be perfect. You just have to trust, simplify, and love.
And that’s enough.
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